There is suffering in life, and there are defeats. No one can avoid them. But it’s better to lose some of the battles in the struggles for your dreams than to be defeated without ever knowing what you’re fighting for.

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you are my 7th and i am 22

How is this relation, i don't know?

i cannot make a call you up to 2 a.m but also i loved you. i cannot give my whole day listing you, but also i loved you. i cannot be with you before 8 years but also i loved you. i don't have enough time to listen you and understand your feeling, but also i loved you!!

i am such a idiot person in this world, i didn't thought about my carrier and started loving you and loved you seriously and the thing is that i have not seen you ever. what happened to me and got to love you!!

so dear, this is my breakup letter to you!! and i am really sorry for this..

Dear .............,

I don't know what to tell you, i am begging you for what went on between us, i cannot hold your hand for the lifetime and i cannot tell you the lie that i can hold your hand throughout lifetime , because i am not that type man who make a false promise to his beloved one..This is the matter why i did not response you! i feel love for you but marrying you is not my final destiny, so dear, it’s better to get seperated now because this is the initial phase and even we have-not seen each other and when we get deeper then dear it will be very hard to get out.
i cannot make you my beloved but also my best wishes are for you! i have a determination in my life which i should achieve it but when i started talking to you then i used to forget my destiny. So, dear I don't want to stop my destiny here, i need to do a lot and i need to understand my life.

you might think that, you are not beautiful! That's not the matter dear because i have not seen such a beautiful hearted girl ever in my life who can understand my feeling. you are one in a million. you cared me a lot. you called almost more than 8 hours a day in 24 hours, how could i forget it. your love and care was very touching part for me and i can hardly forget you in my life.

so dear, this is what i need to say to you and please do not think it negative but if you find this all worthless then decide yourself!!

Best wishes from my side and keep happy!

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बिश्व बातावरण दिवस

सफा स्वच्छ हावापानी, हाम्रो अधिकार्
प्रदुषित हावा पानी, सधै बहिस्कार

आज सोचौं भविश्यलाई, जोगाउँ बातावरण
नयाँ पिडिलाई नसुम्पिए, हामीलाई धिक्कार्

रोपौ रुख्, जोगाउँ बातावरण, बनौ सभ्य नागरिक
बनाउँ शहर, बनाउँ देश्, हटाउँ सब बिकार ।

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आखिर दोषि को

गन्तब्य बिहिन यात्रा गरिरहदा मनमा अनेक किसिमका प्रश्न उठछन्, कहिले भविश्यलाई लिएर त कहिले बर्तमान सुधारर्न नसकेर, मनमा पैदा भइरहदा मन एक तमास भइरहेको हुन्छ। अनि म अकमक्क परेर बसीरहन्छु । म सोच्छु भोलिको भविश्य कस्तो होला भनेर तर उत्तर छैन म सँग र छ केबल सुन्यता । सायद मैले सोच्दा त मेरो भविश्य आखा उघार्न नसक्ने गरी प्रकाश छर्ने हुन्छ होला, तर के थाहा , भविश्यको कुरा, अध्यारो जसमा म हराउन सक्ने पनि त हुन सक्छ मेरो भविश्य ।

लेख्छु लेखिरहन्छु मन् मा तरङित् भएका मेरा भावना । साएद कहिलै यसरि नलेख्ने भएर होला दिमाग र मनले ब्रेक लगाउन मन गरिरहेको छैन र स्फुर्तिका साथ कलम चलाइ रहेको छ।मेरा दिमागमा आइरहने प्रस्नले मलाइ जहिले पनि धक्धकाइ रहेको हुन्छ। मनिसहरु समजबाट किन दिक्दारि मान्छन्, किन यहि समाजमा बौला भनाउदाहरुका आनुहार बढदै गहिरहेको छ? यस्ता अनेक प्रस्नहरु मेरा मनमा बिचलित भैरहेका छन्।
हुनत: मैले भेटेका र चिनेजानेकालाइ यो प्रस्न नसोधेको पनि होइन। सोधिरहन्छु बार् बार् -बारम्बार र मनमा पनि खेलाइरहन्छु तर अन्त्यको निस्कर्ष चै अचम्मको निस्कन्छ। कि त उनिहरु मलाइ पागल् भन्छन् र अर्को एक अनुहार् थप्छन कि त मैले एक् नयाँ अनुहार् थपिरहेको हुन्छु पागलको लिस्टमा।

के मनिषलाई समाजिक मुल्य र मन्यता चित्त नबुझेर नै हो त दिक्दारिको कारण?

र यस्तै यस्ता प्रस्नहरु मनमा उठिरहन्छन् र उत्तरबिनै सान्त बन्नुपर्ने हुन्छ म। सायद् यस्ता समस्याहरुले देशको विकाशसङ सम्बन्ध राक्छ त? हुन त, प्राय: मानिषहरुको उत्तर यस्तै नै हुने गर्दछ। त्यस्तै हो भने के विकशित मुलुकको चै समश्या होइन र? म त यस्ता कुराहरु मन्न तयार भएको छैन कि त बुझाउने व्यक्तिले बुझाउन नसकेको भन्नु पर्छ मैले।

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Do you want Success?

“Success comes from experiences and experiences comes from bad experience”

Different people have a different opinion regarding success in life.But what are the pre-requirement to get success in life? Some think health as success of life, some think wealth as a success of life and some think as education as a success of life.

No doubt, these above are necessary conditions for your success. But, what are the things needed for success in your life,which you don’t have to acquire from others?The things which we possess already but used a little only are 5Cs’:
1. Confidence
2. Commitment
3. Courage
4. Calmness and
5. creativity

Confidence is trusting yourself. You cannot trust others unless you have trust on yourself and your behaviour. You need to know what you are doing and why you are doing this. When you trust that the efforts made are leading us and our surrounding towards something good in future, you can only proceed further for the desired goal. The goal cannot be achieved without stepping a single step. If you think yourself that what you are doing are not fruitful for you, be sure this can’t be completed.

Commitment is the key to success. If you have it, you can win the struggles of our life. When you start to work, you should always think “ I have to complete it, so won’t stop in the middle”. you can cheat your parents, teachers, friends but can’t cheat yourself. You are not only losing time while cheating yourself but also your current journey of our life will be paused. Commitment have a special strength. If you have commitment, you are sure to get what you want. Also there is a saying “Where there is a will, there's a way”

you need courage to live your life.By giving up the courage, you cannot move a step in your life. Living a life is itself a great courage, because it encounters various kinds of problems frequently. Courage counterattacks each and every obstacles of our life. Without courage, you have to stop yourself waiting for someone to rescue you. Courage transfers from weak to brave from fool into brilliant and idol into a live human.

Calmness makes us able to handle each and everything that we possess. You need to be calm in every moment, either it’s your beloved death or your victory in millions lottery. Over-excitement and over disappointment are always harmful and so avoidable for our life. If you lose calmness you may fall into accident, anytime and anywhere.

Creativity gives you opportunity to color your life. Naturally, you have some inborn arts, capacity and abilities. You have to recognize what you have. By nature, all possess such a magic tool, with which we can build-up, shape and develop our own personality, in which way we like.
In other words” Creativity is the unique way of exposing and expressing us in front of this whole world”

Guys, nature has given us all the qualities. After recognizing them, we can use them everytime and everywhere we like and we need. But be serious they are not constant. They can increase if we use them and decrease if we don’t. The more we use, the more we get it increased and strengthened, both in quality and quantity.

But it’s not a compulsion for you to do what I say. At first, think yourself, test and verify it within own personal life. Interpret the findings. If you find it worthwhile, try it and see in what position you really are!!!

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समय र साथ

भेट मेरो अनौठो थियो, उनको र मेरो साथ पनि
माया मेरो चोखो थियो, आँखा लोभी भए पनि
साथ दिन्छु भनेकै थिए, आखिर चोट खाए पनि
लाउन्न भन्छु अब माया, असल साथी पाए पनि

समयलाई मनिशले चिन्नै पर्ने, कुरो रहेछ
समयलाई नाचिन्नाले आज, एस्तो अवस्था भएछ
म बिर्सन्न तिमीलाई, तिमीले बिर्सी गए पनि
लाउन्न भन्छु अब माया, असल साथी पाए पनि

मेरो माया चोखो थियो, किन अबुज बनिदियौ
झुटो सपना देखाएर, आँखा पनि रसाई दियौ
हात थाम्छु भनेकै थिए, परिस्थिथि बदलिएर आए पनि
लाउन्न भन्छु अब माया, असल साथी पाए पनि

माया मेरो छैन भनि, ठुलो भए लाग्यो होला
आफु प्रति आफैलाइ , घमण्ड पक्कै जाग्यो होला
पछि सोच्छौ एक्लै टोलाई, हामी दुइको साथ पनि
लाउन्न भन्छु अब माया, असल साथी पाए पनि !!!!

समिप खतिवडा

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दुखेको मन

आश ठुलो थियो तिम्रो, आखिर टाढा भयौ
भूल मेरो सानो थियो, तर रुदै गयौ
फर्काउन सकिन तिमीलाई, धेरै कोशिस गरे
अन्त्यमा त नसकेर, आखामा आशु भरे!!!

धेरै वर्ष कुँरे तिमीलाई, तर फर्की आइनौ
यादमा मात्र सिमित भयौ, सामुन्ने त छैनौ
अब के नै बाकी छ र, तिमिनै गएपछी
माया भन्ने चिजै यस्तो, मुटु टुक्रेपछि!!!

गल्तीलाई त माफी दिन्छन, दिदैनन नि पिडा
बरु मलाई गरे हुन्थो, धेरै धेरै घ्रिडा
तिम्रो माया धेरै लाग्थो, लाग्छ आज पनि
लग्यो समयले छानी छानी, तिमीलाई पनि!!!

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